I am a white, heterosexual woman. As a young girl, I realized that my life was just a tiny glimpse of the full picture of what life as a human being is like. I set out to understand others by learning French, Spanish, and Japanese. While I was a Language Studies major in college, I also spent a good deal of time taking American Studies classes, wanting to understand more perspectives on the diverse experiences of lives that were so different from mine in the US, and hoping to do more than learn about them in a book.
In college, I spent 6 weeks in the Yucatan Peninsula living with families and becoming part of their lives for one week at a time. I gained an appreciation for both the struggles and the beauty of the lives of people in a place where resources were more scarce.

Literature has been one of my mainstays of learning about the experience of others in the world, and I think it is a key way for us to open our hearts and minds. Some of these books will make you uncomfortable. Good. They should. They have changed me deeply.
This list is compiled from books I have read over many many years. They only represent most of what I have read. I have many books to go, and more importantly, more conversations and real life relationships to build.
- Black in the US
- The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas
- I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou
- Sula by Toni Morrison
- Beloved by Toni Morrison
- fledgling by Octavia Butler
- Becoming by Michelle Obama
- Boy, Snow, Bird by Helen Oyeyemi
- Washington Black by Esi Edugyan
- This Will Be My Undoing by Morgan Jerkins
- Red at the Bone by Jacqueline Woodson
- The Water Dancer by Ta-Nehisi Coates
- Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
- The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson
- The Revisioners by Margaret Wilkerson Sexton
- Heavy: An American Memoir by Kiese Laymon
- Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Neale Hurston
- TV Series TO WATCH: Atlanta
- For more ideas for how to learn more, take action, and tackle your own biases, check this out.
- African in the US or in Africa
- Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
- Born a Crime by Trevor Noah
- Cry the Beloved Country by Alan Paton
- Chinese American
- The Valley of Amazement by Amy Tan
- The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan
- Saving Fish From Drowning by Amy Tan
- The Bonesetter’s Daughter by Amy Tan
- The Kitchen God’s Wife by Amy Tan
- Mambo in Chinatown by Jean Kwok
- Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng
- Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng
- Haitian + Dominican in the US
- ¡Yo! by Julia Alvarez
- In the Time of Butterflies by Julia Alvarez
- How the García Girls Lost Their Accents by Julia Alvarez
- The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao by Junot Diaz
- This is How You Lose her by Junot Diaz
- Everything Inside by Edwidge Danticat
- Indian in the USA, India, and Africa
- The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri
- Interpreter of Maladies by Jhumpa Lahiri
- Unaccustomed Earth by Jhumpa Lahiri
- Trail of Broken Wings by Sejal Badani
- The Storyteller’s Secret by Sejal Badani
- The God of Small Things by Arundhati Roy
- Cutting for Stone by Abraham Verghese
- Girls Burn Brighter by Shobha Rao
- Japanese and Korean in the US and abroad
- The Island of Sea Women by Lisa See
- Farewell to Manzanar by Jeanne Wakatsuki Houston and James D. Houston
- The Kinship of Secrets by Eugenia Kim
- Mexican American
- Woman Hollering Creek by Sandra Cisneros
- The House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros